Surviving hard times

You are what you think about.
What are you consistently saying or doing?
What are your definitions of yourself and other people?
What forms those opinions?
What is your mindset on certain matters or situations?
Is it based on people you walk with,talk with,listen to,or someone you talk to?
Your relationships should be focused on God not people's speech.
Although people mean well,they can be a little fickle.
You have to listen and give people the benefit of doubt.

There is a cut-the cord experience where you form your opinions away from other people's own.
At that point you should ask what is the basis of your opinion?
Life somehow eliminates people you believed in or listened to.At that point you begin to ask yourself questions:
Who am I?
What am I doing?
Who am I saying things to?
What is actually going on?
It has to do with your IDENTITY.